Reevaluating My Circle
- Karian Newby-Durham
- Jun 29, 2023
- 2 min read
As I sit in my bed wondering about who my circle of friends are I'm really starting to filter my friend group. I think I'm finally at the point of sitting back and just watching. I've noticed that I'm the friend that genuinely tries to be there for my friends; but, who is really here for me? I had an energy reader tell me that I have low expectations when it comes to people because I've been disappointed a lot, I didn't realize how true that was. She also said that I cheer for a lot of people but those people aren't truly cheering for me. As I started to evaluate my friends and I mentioned this to some of them they could see it too. Now a few friends that I could think of off the dome, I saw it no filter. But, then I took a deep dive- the energy reader wasn't playing. I noticed that I had a friend that I'm ALWAYS the one that reaches out even while on vacation. I started looking for receipts and when I say I DIDN'T FIND ANY where it wasn't me initiating the conversation I'm not even lying. So then I started being hard on myself like how did I not see this? I wonder if I stopped reaching out will this friend even notice? If you're my friend like you say you are can we have a convo like what's going on? Do I even care enough to not have this person around as a friend? Honestly, it's a game-time decision we will see what happens. I think I'm ok with pruning the friend tree. Some people are in your life for a season. #Unbothered#Circleisgettingsmaller#protectyourenergy

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